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Alexandra
&
Benjamin
Oaxaca, Mexico
November 14, 2026
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How It All Began
Our Story
Alexandra and Ben met in May 2019 while living in Boston. They quickly bonded over an appreciation of the simple things like kale salads, loving siblings, and big hugs.
Their early days of dating involved evening tennis matches, runs on the Esplanade, daytrips to the White Mountains of New Hampshire, and frozen margaritas at Felipe's in Harvard Square.
Seven years later their love story has unfolded over many chapters—new jobs, grad school, new friends, hobbies, challenges, successes and disappointments. They've moved cities, states and countries including stints in Fort Lauderdale, Seattle, Palo Alto, Amsterdam and for the last three years San Francisco.
They are blessed to start their next chapter as husband and wife surrounded by loving families and the truest of friends.
Our Destination
Why We Love Oaxaca
🌴 Relaxed Vibe
The city of Oaxaca is a small, historic, easily walkable destination known for its cobblestone streets, beautifully preserved Spanish colonial architecture and colorful buildings. It's welcoming to visitors since English is widely spoken in hotels, restaurants and shops.
🎉 Festive Energy
It won't take long to notice Oaxaca's festive energy. The vibrantly colored buildings, frequent parades and street dancing are hard to miss. Who knows, you might just find yourself in a calenda—a festive street procession held for weddings!
🍫 Culinary Capital
Oaxaca is widely considered the culinary capital of Mexico. Chefs from around the world travel here to learn, train, and draw inspiration. Famous dishes include Mole, tlayudas, spiced Oaxacan hot chocolate, and chapulines.
🥃 Heart of Mezcal
Oaxaca produces the majority of Mexico's mezcal and is widely considered the spiritual home of the drink. Many of the country's most respected mezcaleros and traditional palenques are located in and around Oaxaca.
💀 Día de los Muertos
People travel from all over the world to experience Día de los Muertos in Oaxaca. The observances blend Indigenous Zapotec customs with Catholic influences. Much of the artwork will still be on display for guests to experience.
☀️ Ideal Weather
The weather in November is nearly perfect with high temps ranging from 70-80 degrees and minimum chance of precipitation.
Wedding Week
Schedule of Events
We'll be in Oaxaca for the full week leading up to the wedding. If you're arriving early, we'd love for you to join us for a few informal activities to experience some of our favorite parts of the city. Details will be shared as plans are finalized.
Wednesday
November 11, 2026
Salsa Dancing Class
A fun, casual night to kick things off and get into the rhythm of Oaxaca. Details forthcoming.
Casual
Thursday
November 12, 2026
Mezcal Distillery Tour
We'll head just outside the city of Oaxaca to visit traditional mezcal palenques, learn how mezcal is made, and experience one of the region's most iconic traditions. Details forthcoming.
Casual Attire
Friday
November 13, 2026
Welcome Drinks
An evening to gather, reconnect, and officially start the wedding weekend. Details forthcoming.
Cocktail Attire
Wedding Day
Saturday, November 14, 2026
Ceremony
3:00 PM
Parroquia del Carmen Alto
C. de Manuel García Vigil 600-Interior Sn, RUTA INDEPENDENCIA, Centro, 68000 Oaxaca de Juárez, Oax., Mexico
Our religious ceremony will take place at a beautiful, centrally located parish, just five miles from the reception venue.
Calenda
Following the ceremony, guests are invited to join a calenda, a beloved Oaxacan tradition featuring live music and a festive procession as we make our way to the celebration.
Reception
Quinta Real
5 de Mayo 300, RUTA INDEPENDENCIA, Centro, 68000 Oaxaca de Juárez, Oax., Mexico
The reception will be held at Quinta Real, where the evening will continue with fine dining, local cocktails, and plenty of dancing to keep the celebration going.
Formal Attire
We're so grateful you're making the trip and can't wait to celebrate together in Oaxaca!
Getting There
Travel Information
✈️ Getting In
We recommend flying into Oaxaca International Airport (OAX) which is located approximately 20 minutes from the wedding location and downtown Oaxaca. There are direct flights from Houston, Dallas, and Los Angeles, as well as frequent connecting flights via Mexico City—a short 1-hour hop.
🚗 Getting Downtown
We recommend taking an official Airport Taxi to your hotel (20-min drive, fixed rate $30 USD). Uber is quite limited in Oaxaca, so the official Airport Taxi is your best bet.
When you pass through customs after picking up your luggage you'll see a taxi booth. You line up there to book either a private taxi ($30 USD) or your seat on a shared shuttle bus into Oaxaca city center ($15 USD). These cannot be booked in advance.
📝 Booking Flights Early
November is the high season in Oaxaca. Please make your arrangements as soon as possible for the best rates and availability. Roundtrip tickets from BOS to OAX are approximately $500-600.
Where to Stay
Accommodations
Our Recommended Hotel
Quinta Real Oaxaca
5 de Mayo 300, RUTA INDEPENDENCIA, Centro, 68000 Oaxaca de Juárez, Oax., Mexico
Our reception will be hosted at the Quinta Real. We will be staying there ourselves and we warmly encourage you to stay there, if possible. It's one of the most beautiful and iconic hotels in the city, right in the heart of downtown and within walking distance of many of our wedding events.
We have reserved a block of rooms at a special rate at Quinta Real. Please mention "Alexandra & Ben" when making your reservation to receive the discounted rate.
To reserve, call +52 951 501 61 00 ext. 322 or email [email protected] (the code will not work on their website).
Other Great Options
Once the Quinta Real sells out, we recommend Hotel Los Amantes, Hotel de la Parra, Hotel Sin Nombre, or Gran Fiesta Americana. All hotels and Airbnbs in the center are great options.
While You're Here
Things to Do
Restaurants & Bars
🍴 Los Danzantes $$$
Michelin-recognized restaurant with modern Oaxacan cuisine in a beautiful setting. Reservations needed well in advance.
🍴 Casa Oaxaca $$
Traditional Oaxacan flavors with a lovely rooftop view overlooking the city. Reservations needed in advance.
🍴 Catedral Restaurant $$
Great for casual Mexican dishes and quick bites near the main square.
🍴 Levadura de Olla Restaurante $
Cozy, authentic, laid back local meals and a favorite for traditional home-style cooking.
🍸 Selva Oaxaca Cocktail Bar $$
Creative cocktails in a vibrant, stylish atmosphere.
Bustling market to shop for local crafts, textiles, and food
Outside of Oaxaca (If You Have More Time)
Monte Albán
Ancient Zapotec ruin set high above the valley with sweeping views. Just 15 minutes from Oaxaca City.
Mitla
Intricate stone mosaics and well-preserved Zapotec and Mixtec architecture. About 1 hour from the city.
Puerto Escondido
Laid-back Pacific beach town famous for surfing and sunsets. 3-4 hours by car or 45-min flight.
Mexico City
World-class museums, incredible food, historic neighborhoods, and vibrant culture. Perfect for a pre- or post-wedding adventure.
Questions & Answers
FAQ
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by July 31, 2026 so we can have an accurate headcount. :)
Are kids welcome?
As much as we love your little ones, we will not be including them in the ceremony or reception. However, we recognize that some of you will be traveling with your kids, so please know they are welcome at the events leading up to Saturday!
What will the weather be like?
November is one of the best months to visit Oaxaca, with warm, sunny days and cooler evenings. Expect temperatures in the 70s–80s°F.
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
Our ceremony and reception will be indoors. Cocktail hour is outside.
Is Oaxaca safe?
Yes. Oaxaca is known for being welcoming and traveler-friendly. As with any destination, we recommend being mindful of your belongings and using common sense while exploring.
What currency should I use and should I take out cash?
The Mexican Peso (MXP) is the local currency. Credit cards are accepted in many places (restaurants, hotels, tours), but we recommend carrying some cash for taxis, markets, and small shops. We recommend taking out Mexican Pesos at the ATMs in the airport, located right next to the Airport Taxi stand.
What language is spoken?
Spanish is the primary language, but English is widely spoken in hotels, restaurants, and tourist areas.
Will transportation be provided on the wedding day?
Oaxaca city center is extremely walkable. Most hotels will be walkable to our ceremony and reception. Ceremony to reception walk is about 3 blocks.
Do I need a car?
No, all wedding events are within walking distance in the city center, and hotels, restaurants, and shops nearby are easily walkable.
How do you pronounce Oaxaca?
Oaxaca is pronounced "wah-HAH-kah".
Whom should I call with questions?
Please reach out to Alexandra (857-206-4361) or Benjamin (617-990-2424) directly. Happy to answer all questions! :)
We Hope You Can Make It
RSVP
Please let us know if you'll be joining us in Oaxaca by July 31, 2026.
Questions? Reach out to Alexandra (857-206-4361) or Benjamin (617-990-2424).
